Love is 

Love is not a business deal or a bargaining factor. If someone says otherwise they are not telling you the truth. If anyone has to give you an ultimatum to be with them then obviously you have invested your time in the wrong person. 



Romans 8:26-28

26 Meanwhile, the moment we get tired in the waiting, God’s Spirit is right alongside helping us along. If we don’t know how or what to pray, it doesn’t matter. He does our praying in and for us, making prayer out of our wordless sighs, our aching groans. He knows us far better than we know ourselves, knows our pregnant condition, and keeps us present before God. That’s why we can be so sure that every detail in our lives of love for God is worked into something good. (‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭26‬ MSG)

I have learned that when I cannot sleep at night to have time with my Savior.


Aries and Virgo

So this afternoon I talked to one of my guy friends who is a Virgo and he always makes me think and I love that about him.

So he was talking about his girlfriend and how she is the total opposite of him and that is why he loved her. I thought that was the sweetest thing in the world until I asked him when was her birthday and he said she was an Aries 😩🙈. I could not believe it. He said just like I have said for years that he was an Aries magnet. The irony…

I guess I should stop pushing Aries guys away because maybe it will actually be different with the right one I guess 😏 but he also made me think when he said maybe God is bringing all the wrong ones to me so I will truly appreciate the right one when they come along. Just to prove to me that all Aries guys are not complete jerks. Hopefully, I haven’t turned the right one away.

It just reminds me that one should love and respect yourself with anyone no matter when they were born. But above all else, love everyone like Christ does and everything else will fall in place.



Never walk around feeling defeated. Never give up. God has gifted you the gift of leadership do not waste it. 

God placed us on Earth to represent him. His son Jesus died for us so we will live for him. Give him our best and honor him with praise. 

Love others as you love yourself.

Ask for forgiveness.

Follow Jesus Christ


Take It & Laugh

BookCoverImage Take It & Laugh

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“In life, you have to learn to overcome obstacles with a smile…you have to take it & laugh…” In a small part of Louisiana, was born a beautiful baby girl named Rayla Ryan that brought joy to all she met. Her eyes smiled as she smiled. Rayla Ryan was born to Sarah Ryan, a hard working single mother, who adored her daughter. Rayla had failed relationships growing up, which led her to becoming a single parent, but never lost her faith in Jesus Christ. She remained focus with getting her education from a prominent HBCU (Southern University Agricultural & Mechanical College) and finding her true purpose in life. 

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