If in doubt 


🙈😂 if in doubt ask yourself #WWJD 
If a guy is not going to pay me any attention and treats me as if I am invisible or less than a goddess …. I will be leaving the scene. I do not come second to no one but Sweet baby Jesus himself or your immediate family if you get along with them. 

I have dated enough guys whom I gave wasted energy and time to…not wasting time on someone who cares less about me than I do about them. Always have time for someone who makes time for you because in the end if you do not you are playing yourself. Love me and accept me for who I am or it was nice knowing you ✌️I have my own Constitution 🇺🇸



I love to cook

I really do love to cook but really dislike washing dishes. I have thrown away dishes to keep from cleaning them sad to say. But I am honest about all my flaws. I fried fish one time and could not stand to get my hands dirty from the grease. My OCD is horrible 😩

I rarely eat greasy foods now but I have threw away several very expensive pots and pans. With all sorts of inventions coming out you would think by now someone would come out with disposable pots and pans. I really do not like dishes so much until I buy disposable plates, bowls, spoons, forks, and knives. 

I will cook you a meal but you will be eating on disposable goods. 🙈



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The mind

A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions.

This quote has so much meaning to me that words are just not enough. I am generally not a fan of quotes but this one serves a purpose. Being a Virgo, everything has to have some sort of meaning to me. 

Almost a year ago, I started dating outside of my race. I never gave it a second thought before, but when you meet someone who is really kind to you just because you are you, one can not pass up the opportunity on spending time to get to know that person. It was really a learned lesson.

I feel people should not block themselves off from finding happiness with just one race. Because that is what society thinks is best. I do not think it is best for me. I could careless of what someone else may think of MY decision. The best thing that I learned last year was meeting a guy who really changed my whole view on why to try to date someone different. He did not advocate one bit for his race. He just changed my way of thinking and I will always be appreciative. You can learn from each other and learning produces growth. If I cannot learn anything from someone I would date, I do not see the purpose on being in the same room with that person. 

I am stating all of this to say, that you can find happiness in all colors shapes and sizes. Do not grow up to be “Shallow Hal” you would be surprised who can actually place a smile on your face and have a place in your heart.